Paid Sex

I have this mild obsession with the idea of paid sex. Either getting paid for it or paying for it.

I tend to think paying for sex necessitates the person getting paid making it a point to EARN that money. I always say you get what you pay for. What kind of different dynamic would it introduce into my regular sex life? Would I enjoy being paid? Would I act differently? What if I were paying? Would I be more demanding? More pushy about being pleased the way that *I* want?

I bring this up because I agreed to pay for half the room on Thursday and in so doing told Frank that I'd wave cash in his direction... but he'd have to work for it. And it got me to thinking.