No self respecting woman would...

I was at safeway. The female cashier was talking to the male cashier behind her. "No self respecting woman would chase a man."

I didn't even bother trying to follow any of the rest of the conversation. I immediately considered the fact that I throw myself at men all the time. I questioned whether I had so little respect for myself that I go after men rather than letting them come to me.

Then I realised that she was dead on wrong. It's entirely respectful to yourself to go after that which you desire rather than sitting back and praying he'll come to you.