I was thinking about what makes married sex so boring. Familiarity, obviously, is so much a part of it. You'd think the familiarity of your partner would make it better. You get to learn all the things that make your partner quiver... breath heavy... and cum.
Fortunately, at least at first, you learn to concentrate on what makes you partner cum. A touch there... a lick there... ah... orgasm. Delightful. Again? Please?
And as time drags on... the years pass. You know all your lover's buttons. The sighs, the quivers... they matter less as one rushes toward the ultimate goal of orgasm. Get in bed... hit the buttons... done. Sleep. A week later... in bed... same buttons... goal! Sleep. Repeat as neccessary.
Booooooooooooooooooooring.
And increasingly... the buttons don't work as well. Because they're not preceeded by the teasing... the excitement.
BOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOOORING!
How to get back to the excitement? Some manage. Other's don't.
I have my theories... but how would I know?
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